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I always tell my clients that they are the only people that matter in this instance, and if they love each other enough, and are committed to getting through the infidelity, with putting in the work, and in time, they can heal and have an even better relationship. The relationship they had is over, but […]

What happens when you fight? Who is the one to kick it off? Is there a specific theme – a subject that always causes tension? That possibly you can never agree on, or feel like you have opposing views? Or is it the way words are used, the way things are said, that triggers one

What does this mean? Lately I have come across several couples where one partner feels they are taking all the responsibility in the relationship. They are the driver of the relationship, they make all the hard decisions, they plan, they carry the mental load, and they perform more tasks within the relationship. Being in a

Sex – the story of the ovens and the microwaves!! This is so true…a client once said to me….. “Women are like ovens – we take a very, very long time to warm up,And men are like microwaves, they are instant.” And what this means is that for a possibility of intimacy with your boyfriend

People often mistakenly think that it is the grand gestures that keep a couple together, that keep them connected, but this is far from the reality. Grand gestures are fun and can be expensive, not frequent enough, or can even be overwhelming. I once had a couple where the husband thought the wife should be

(rules of communication which lead to better understanding) It has been raised recently in present clients, that it would be a good practise/idea to talk through and get an agreement with your partner, on how you would both like to celebrate and acknowledge important days like: Birthdays and Anniversaries Have a discussion and come to

I recently had the pleasure of assisting a young couple with coming to a decision on how to resolve several ongoing conflicts that were causing them to argue, without any resolution. They were all to do with future goals and decisions. The couple highlighted the areas of disagreement and concern. I heard what each of

That make a relationship work…… It’s those small bids to connect…….. Like making your partner a cup of tea in the morning while making your own cup. While out doing the grocery shopping, noticing your partner’s favourite food is on special and putting it in your trolley. Or coming home from grocery shopping with a

So many couples that I have seen recently seem to have a hangover fatigue from long lockdowns and covid pressures leading to a listlessness and need for something new, to reset and find some positivity and a renewed sense of hope. On saying this and I have encouraged countless couples over the years, that in

Raising children is hard but raising children with a disability or special needs, adds additional challenges. That is why it is so important to be a team, a “united front.” To be on side, to be each other’s ally’s and support, work on a plan together on how to manage everything, from discipline to schooling,